We’ve finally realized (and not a minute too soon!) that communication has nothing to do with a screen. After years of living rooms that were all about huge TVs, computers, DVD players and video games, we’re craving a space that’s quiet, serene and designed for relaxation. Introducing the no-tech living room – an oasis of comfort.

It’s an incredibly hot trend and yet very traditional – we’re reverting to a space my grandmother called the parlour. Consider a room that’s exclusively meant for enjoying conversation with friends and family. Start by moving all things tech to a family room or den: TVs, stereos, laptops, yes, even cell phones! Now start planning your new, truly interactive living room. Here are some tips:

Get cozy. A room designed for conversation should be inviting. Be sure there are lots of cushions that feel as good as they look. Add a plush rug. Keep throws in easy reach. HINT: Choose a fabulous array of patterns and stack your throws artistically.

Think warm. Choose a paint colour that’s warm rather than cold. It’s richer and generates a feeling of closeness. Not only will a warm colour create ambience; it will actually add a glow to your skin.

Celebrate whimsy. A room with a sense of humour makes guests feel at ease. Display art and unique furnishings that reflect your good taste and love of life. Most people enjoy a room that has a touch of the unexpected. Eclectic and comfy trump perfect but unapproachable any day!

Keep a focal point. Most of us lay out our living rooms around the TV. No more! But you’ll still need a focal point to give your room balance. It can be a fireplace, a unique piece of artwork, a window framing a beautiful view or a gorgeous armoire.

Create conversation-conducive seating. Arrange your seating to encourage conversation. Create a “U” or “L” shape with your sofa, chairs, or sectional. Bring chairs away from the walls and closer together for intimacy. HINT: Be sure to include portable seating like a bench, poufs or accent chairs. Make it easy for friends to pull up a seat and get involved.

Have fun. Tech-free doesn’t mean fun-free! How about an ottoman or coffee table with storage for board games, puzzles and colouring books? Or perhaps invest in bookcases filled with the classics and spend time reading with your family?

What will you add? When you clear out the tech, you may have room for something else! Consider a bar cart, a statement chaise or even a piano.

Choose comfort. Of course it’s important that your furnishings are attractive, but make comfort your first priority. Opt for sofas with plenty of support, thick cushions, and soft yet durable upholstery, or perhaps wonderfully worn distressed leather. Look for solid hardwood construction and quality craftsmanship.

But what if? Okay, maybe you don’t have the space to have a designated no-tech living room. If that’s the case, consider ingenious new furnishings that complete hide cords, wires etc. Your space will look tech-free and tidy!

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